How to Communicate With Your 4- to 7-Month-Old

To communicate means to share thoughts, ideas, and feelings. We communicate through sounds, words, facial expressions, and touch. Babies this age can communicate through body language, smiles, laughter, crying, and babbling. Talking, singing, and touching your baby all strengthen the bond between you and help your baby learn to communicate.

Care Instructions

  • Talk to your baby as often as possible. Say out loud the names of people, objects, and activities. This helps your baby start to understand how to use words. And just hearing your voice is soothing to your baby — it means food, warmth, touch, and comfort.
  • Keep your baby in the same room as you so they can listen to your speech and copy sounds. Portable cribs, baby-safe seats, and high chairs are all great ways to keep your baby safe and nearby. Remember to buckle all safety straps, and never put a baby seat on a counter or table.
  • When you talk to your baby, speak slowly and put stress on single words. For example, show a toy to your baby and say, "Do you want a toy? This is your toy." Then wait for a response.
  • Babies this age love playing with others. Play communication games with your little one:
    • Copy your baby's coos and babbles. Repeat the sounds your baby makes.
    • Have "conversations" and give your baby a chance to "reply." Respond happily to whatever your baby "says." This encourages your baby to make sounds. It also teaches that people take turns when talking.
    • Read picture books aloud every day. Point to the pictures and say the names of the objects.
    • Play games like "pat-a-cake" and "peek-a-boo."
    • Sing to your baby.
    • Play a "faces" game. Copy the faces your baby makes, and make faces for your baby to copy. This can include smiling and looking surprised.
  • Babies this age learn best by talking and playing with others and touching things in their world. So it's best to avoid screen time such as videos, video games, TV, and phone apps. Video chatting is OK.
  • When your baby cries:
    • Check that your baby is safe and not hungry, tired, sick, or in need of a diaper change.
    • Comfort your baby with singing, talking, holding, or gentle rocking.
    • If it's time for your baby to sleep, put your baby in the crib and leave the room quietly. You may need to go to your baby again if the crying continues. Talk to your health care provider if your baby is having trouble sleeping.

Call Your Health Care Provider if...

  • Your baby isn't making cooing sounds.
  • Your baby doesn't respond to others by making sounds and smiling.
  • You're concerned about your baby's language skills.
  • You're worried that your baby isn't seeing or hearing normally.
  • Your baby is crying and has other symptoms, like low activity, poor feeding, a fever, or trouble breathing, or seems to be in pain.
  • You feel very frustrated, sad, or out of control.

You know your baby best. If your baby has signs that concern you, call your health care provider.

More to Know

How do babies this age communicate? Babies this age use sounds to get attention and show feelings. Their voices might get higher, as if asking a question. Babies also use body language to communicate. When full, your baby might lean back and turn away to let you know not to give more food. Your baby may show excitement by smiling and moving when you come into the room.

When do babies start to understand what words mean? By the end of the seventh month, babies usually respond to their names, pause when they hear "no," babble, copy sounds, and respond to speech by making sounds of their own.